Dating And Hair Loss Strategy # 2: Visualization

• Sunday January 8, 2006 in: Hair Loss Tag(s):
  Here is the second part of the series of dating and hair loss that had this writer grasping at straws and wringing his hands in self-pity (?)

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  Dating is just plain hard. You don't' know what to wear, you don't know what to say, and you don't know what not to say.

  And when you throw hair loss on top of that it can make a stressful situation downright unbearable.

  Sure you might be on Rogaine or Propecia, or even in the midst of a hair transplant, but none of these are immediate...and you need results right away.

  Fear not, intrepid dater, we have a technique that just might change your life.

  It involves your brain, your imagination and your sub-conscious mind and it is called...VISUALIZATION.

  Scientists have concluded that we create our reality based on the mental pictures we carry of ourselves inside our brain.

  So the question is why not make them supportive and positive mental pictures instead of debilitating ones that make us feel less confident.

  They did this study a few years ago where high school basketball players were divided into two groups.

  One group was told to go to gym and practice their free throws everyday for 30 minutes.

  The other group was told NOT to go to the gym but simply stay at home and practice their free throws in their mind.

  Amazingly both groups improved at the same rate, meaning that the sub-conscious mind cannot distinguish between a real event and an imagined one.

  This same technology can be used to make yourself more comfortable before your date.

  Close your eyes and imagine yourself acting comfortably, talking with confidence, and feeling very good about yourself on your date.

  This 'memory' will be the same as if you had gone on the hypothetical date yourself.

  And when it comes for the real thing you will feel confident and secure, making your date forget whether you had hair loss in the first place.