The Best Laid Plans

Wednesday April 5, 2006 in: Dating Tag(s): Dating

Okay, so you are going to have a date with a foxy chick tonight. You want to make her feel special. You want to make this night her one of the most unforgettable dates ever, if not the most memorable one. So, you plan to take a closer look at every detail, and make sure everything turns out right.

You've got everything planned for this date. From the romantic spot, the food, the ambiance, the clothes that you wear, the perfume, to your physical features, everything should be at its best. Right now, it doesn't matter if you've spent the hell out of your savings. What matters is the impression that you will give at this very moment. After all, that impression would truly be very influential over matters concerning your future. You believe that this girl is the right one, and going through greater lengths just to have her, seems sensible enough.

Now, the moment has finally come. You are now sitting together in this beautiful candle-lit dinner, served with the most exquisite cuisine that she would surely love. And then, the night just seems to go on its own, with you and her going along with the blissful flow. The night has been very perfect. You even had a soulful goodnight kiss afterwards.

Wow, everything was so good. And you went to sleep with all these beautiful thoughts of the conversations you had for the night, ready to wake up the next day with her return calls, begging you to be with her forever.

However, three days have passed and she hasn't made a phone call. What happened? The evening you shared was so amazing, or so you think. You tried to contact her, and she refused. And now, you are wondering. What must have gone wrong?

Okay, reality check. That story must have had a different ending as opposed to the one I made. But honestly, this just goes to show that even the best laid plans have their demise. And that is so true especially when it comes to something as intricate and interesting as dating.

Strangely, even if you followed the rules, and made sure everything went fine, there is no escaping the claws of rejection. Even the most prepared guy needs to include dealing with rejection in such preparation. So how to be prepared for it? This dating article might be of help.

The bottom line is, sometimes rules and preparedness don't work. And sometimes, whether one follows the rules or not, luck has its way of putting things at the right places. So chill out, pal. Don't be so serious. Life is beautiful, you know.

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